Oh dear.
Re gasket sealant, I've used Loctite Aviation Gasket Sealanf No. 3
https://autopro.com.au/ap/Autopro-Category/Brands/Loctite/Loctite-Gasket-Sealant-No-3-Aviation-50mL---3JA/p/DI01199 for may years. It's a bit old fashioned, but is has many properties that I like. It doesn't set (surely it's best feature - I hate nothing more than to find bits of sealant crap floating around in an engine), it seals well, it's cheap, and it's a dark-blackish-brown colour. Just a thin layer on any gasket, or machined metal-to-metal faces, wipe excess off with a rag - looks good and works well.
Avoiding things clanking is the ancient art of "fitting". Lots of measurement and care required. Often forgotten is that things expand when they get hot, so clank-free on the bench is not enough - correct clearance is important. Make sure the rod is central to the crankcase opening, and double check that the piston is precisely at 90 degrees to the cylinder base. (You can do the latter with an engineer's square on the crankcase mouth, remembering that the piston is not round, and probably tapered! If you do a trial fit of the cylinder with no rings, the gap between the piston and the cylinder should be even.)
All good fun!
Leon