Hi Marky
"Want to get it right but costs (as always) are mounting!"
Yes I have to agree costs do mount, but, if you get it wrong the cost will be far greater.
This bush is used to not only support the end of the shaft but also feed the oil to the big ends, any loose fit here starves the big ends of oil, the results I think you can guess, if you check with specialized Triumph parts suppliers you may find one with a bush with the centre undersize to fit the ground shaft and the outer oversize to compensate for the worn case, if not get one made, you know it makes sense, do the job right and you only do it once.
As for the tappets I guess the wear you ask about is on the face which runs on the cam, slight wear here is no problem also they should be a fairly loose fit in the guides.