Its not a left hand thread is it - not knowing these personally.
Advice welcome - heat from a blowtorch perhaps?
Well worth a try.
Don't cook anything in the vicinity though.
Red heat can alter heat treatment strength.
The nut you might need to think of as a disposable item.
And what are you doing using a torque wrench in reverse !
Not entirely recommended. !
I'd have to say a sudden whack from a whackometer (hammer) can sometimes shock things into releasing.
You wouldn't want to be doing this through a torque wrench though.
A single good hit across a good long handle is what is required, not a series of half hearted destruction/vengeance hits ..
Have fun.